Well, it’s cold out. Like, really cold..and windy….and bedtime feels like 6 o’clock because the sun abandoned us at five.

What I’m trying to say is I’m already dreading winter.

On the bright side…a new season and new weather means a change in my beauty routine. Which means…an excuse to shop! 😉

So, if you’re wondering what to buy to make the transition into winter just a bit easier on your skin and look then you’re going to love this edition of “On My List.”

Fall Winter Beauty Must Haves

1. Nars Velvet Matte Lip Pencil
Preferably in one of their shades of dark red! It’s officially time to transition from glossed lips and pink shimmer to a much more bold lip. The Nars lip pencil doubles as a liner and lipstick but is moisturizing enough to keep lips healthy through the colder months!

2. Dior Cleansing Water
I’m a firm believed in washing my face both in the morning and at night. Unfortunately, with the dry, frigid air that accompanies this time of year scrubbing twice a day can cause dry, unhealthy skin. So, a few nights a week I like to swap out my nightly scrub with Dior Cleansing Water. A little bit on a kleenex gently removes the day’s makeup and grime and leaves your skin feeling soft and clean!

3. Nest Hand Lotion
It’s officially “wash your hands every chance you get so you don’t catch that nasty cold from your co-workers” season. If you’re going to be washing them all day and following up with lotion it might as well be a lotion that smells as divine as this one does. I love to carry one around in my purse!

4. Dry Bar Detox Dry Shampoo
Unless you want a dry, frizzy mess it is impossible to wash your hair every day. Which is why I try to skip a day by freshening up with my favorite dry shampoo!

5. Pursonic Humidifier
Unless you live in the jungle…I absolutely advise that you do not sleep without a humidifier this time of year. This one gives you plenty of control over your settings and offers both warm and cold moisture.

6. Josie Maran Argan Oil Serum
No matter how many days between washes your hair will always need a little extra moisture. This Argan oil is my favorite – just seems more workable than the others!

7. Philosophy Hope in a Jar
I’m going on year four of using this face moisturizer. I have been absolutely unable to find another one that moisturizes as well as this does…without feeling too heavy. I use it both morning at night this time of year!

8. Clinique Chubby Stick Baby Tint
The perfect balm to freshen up those bold lip colors throughout the day as well as adding some much needed moisturizer.

9. Hempz Original Moisturizer
For all over moisture this is my absolutely favorite. Smells like heaven! Repairs and moisturizes! Feels light and airy!

10. Julep Cuticle Oil
Even if you are one who gets regular manicures I would recommend dabbing on cuticle oil nightly! Again, with all of the hand washing we do during this season the cuticles get completely dried out and the hand lotion can only do so much!

What did I miss? What’s on your list?!

xo.
Hayley

The most common comment I get on my smokey eye makeup is…”I try and do something like that and I just look silly!”

I bet you don’t! We all spend so much time looking at ourselves in the mirror that sometimes when we try something a bit different than our usual look we think we look ridiculous…when someone else thinks you look great!

There are so many tutorials and tips on achieving the perfect smoky eye look! But…if you keep trying and you keep finding yourself less than impressed with the outcome…I’ve put together a list of the 5 most common ways we manage to ruin our smokey eye look! These come from personal experience!

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1. Your brows are pulling a disappearing act.

Some of us have naturally dark, rich and perfectly shaped brows. Most of us don’t…which means…for all of you fair haired girls out there…you need to fill them in! I’m an outrageous believer of filling in the brows anytime (even when I am going out sans makeup I at least stop to give my brows a little color) but it is ridiculously important if you want to pull off a smokey eye. If you don’t fill those things in they will take a back seat to the heavy makeup look on your eye. That’s not good – we need our brows….I know I’m still having bad dreams about Kendall Jenner’s bleached brows.

Try: Anastasia Brow Genius Kit

2. Your lashes lack drama.

If you have long lashes…awesome. Curl those things and use a mascara like Benefit! They’re Real to give those things some life! If you don’t have the lash length…then apply some falsies. Your lashes are an extremely important aspect of the smokey eye – they add dimension and add texture to the look…dramatic, full eye lashes are key!

Try: Benefit, They’re Real! Mascara
Try: Urban Decay – Urban Lash

3. Your lip color is fighting to steal the show.

Very few people successfully pull off a bold eye and a bold lip simultaneously. I think I’ve successfully done this once (and I was never able to do it again!) If you’ve decided to give your eyes some smoky attention then its best to keep the lips subtle and glossy. This goes for blush as well – keep it soft!

Try: Buxom Full-On Lip Cream in White Russian
Try: Nars Blus in Orgasm

4. You’ve left a mess. 

It is almost impossible to apply a smokey eye without ending up with a little debris under the eye and on the face. If this isn’t properly cleaned up then you’ll be left with a dark circle, sunken eye look that reminisces the morning after a realllly long night. It’s best to do the eyes first, clean up the mess and then apply foundation and concealer on the face. Finish with the setting spray to make sure everything stays where it should!

Try: Urban Decay All Nighter Setting Spray

5. You’re holding back.

People have the misconception that they can’t pull off a smoky eye. This isn’t true. Everyone can pull off a smokey eye of some sort. Don’t hold back when applying the look…if you do, you’ll end up with a smokey eye which actually isn’t a smokey eye! And you won’t love it!!

Try: Too Faced Chocolate Bar Eye Palette

For those of you who hadn’t heard…2014 hasn’t been my easiest year. Like, at all.

Unfortunately, this blog suffered because of it. I spent a lot of time writing for myself…instead of everyone else…and I just never found much inspiration to post here.

I’ve missed it immensely. I’ve missed the chance to interact with my readers and my followers. I’ve missed reading your comments and your emails and your advice. This space makes me happy. So I want to come back to it. Permanently.

Everyone waits for January 1st to “start over”. I think that’s silly. I believe in starting over any damn time you want! 😉 So, I will.

I’m going to have a “blog relaunch” of sorts. I want this blog to be something different…maybe “different” is the wrong word…I want it to be something “more”. I want to share more of myself…not just the things I love (oh heyyy…all things makeup!). I want to write, really write – I want to affect people with my words. 

I won’t blab any longer…just expect a “new” blog and a “new” post October 6th!

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I’ve spent my entire life doing exactly what I am supposed to. Always what was expected of me.

My life was perfectly molded around the people I loved. My days began and ended with this thought: “what can I do today to make everyone around me as happy as possible?”

I’m hoping that most of you can see how unhealthy that sort of behavior is…I hope you can identify what was missing.

I never once asked myself:
“what can I do today to make sure I am as happy as possible?”

The day I started asking myself that question. Well, everything changed.

If you asked me exactly a year ago what my life would be like on this day – I would have been full of ideas and wishes and dreams. But, I can say with certainty, not one word of what that girl would have told you would have any relevance to what is actually happening, now, a year later.

For better or for worse I have changed more in the past year than in the previous 26 years combined.

Transition and growth and risk.

That has been my life as I know it.

And now – 1,000 miles away from a year ago I find myself feeling simultaneously full and broken. Scared and confident. Excited and hesitant. Loved and abandoned.

Found and yet, so completely lost. 

“It sounds like you’re finally living.” That was her response when I poured this all at her feet. “It sounds like you are finally taking charge of your life. This is healthy.”

It doesn’t feel healthy. Sitting here – hair wet and face clean – legs crossed for so long at this point I don’t think I can feel my feet. I sat down at this keyboard, hoping, that I could find solace in the one thing that has always been able to comfort me. Words. Black and white and tangible on a bright white screen. But, still, comfort and familiarity evade me.

I think that’s the point. I think that’s what she meant when she called this living.

I guess the reason for this post…the reason I felt compelled to put these thoughts into writing…is because maybe you’re scared too. Maybe you’re looking for the sort of bravery to really be in charge of your life. And maybe you’ll read this and you’ll believe in it – in living for yourself and for your dreams and for your wishes.

As summer slowly slips from our grasps we are getting ready to say goodbye (for now) to one of America’s most beloved traditions: Baseball.

I grew up smack dab in the middle of America…which meant that I had several MLB teams within driving distant to cheer on all summer. Unfortunately, I never truly embraced the tradition of baseball…so, I found my fandom dependent on whoever I was dating at the time. For some reason, the one team that seemed to stick with me was the Atlanta Braves.

So, as a way of honoring the end of baseball season I have put together my idea of the perfect game day ensemble. Beginning with my favorite team hat from Fanatics!!

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Fanatics MLB Hat Style Challenge - Atlanta Braves
Hope you love it!

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I’m coming out of blog hibernation to let my readers know something really exciting! One of my favorite beauty stores is opening a new store in Papillion, NE!

The Beauty Brands shopping experience is like none other! It’s aisles are filled with over 10,000 salon quality hair, nail and bath & body products as well as a huge selection of prestigious makeup products. To top it all off the store features a full service salon!

The store, located at 8920 S. 71st Plaza, will be celebrating with a Grand Opening this weekend May 30th-June 1st.

The weekend will feature several events and appearances, and offers shoppers chances to

win gift cards and take advantage of limited time gift-with-purchase offers and special savings.

Throughout the three day celebration, ambassadors from brands including Smashbox, Butter

London, Clarisonic, Essie, Laura Geller Beauty and more will be on hand for one-on-one

consultations, previews of new colors straight off the catwalks, demos of new techniques, trends

and treatments, and customized makeovers. Each day, the first 100 customers to visit Beauty

Brands will receive a $25 gift certificate. All who register for a Beauty Brands “Take 10

Rewards” card will receive a free 10 oz. Redken Pillow Proof Blowdry Spray, while supplies

last. Customers can also enjoy special savings of up to 70% on selected products, and 50% off

on any haircut in the salon.

I will be stopping by on Friday to check out the ultimate shopping experience and I can’t wait to share it with all of you.

After almost six years together…I still get outrageously excited for “date night”. Maybe it is because Andrew and I spend most nights apart (due to work schedules) or maybe it is because we have so much freaking fun together…all I know, is…I can’t get enough of that guy!

I think some of the fun of having a date night is the anticipation and the ritual of getting all dolled up! I make it my mission…after this many years together…to try and take his breath away every time I breeze down the stairs and announce, “I’m ready!”

I discovered a few years ago…that the “perfect” date night look…required a certain amount of balance and skill. Enough makeup to accentuate his favorite features…but not so much he had trouble recognizing me. Something cute and a little bit sexy….but not so trendy that it left him confused and not so sexy that it left him feeling protective and jealous. And finally, a few details that prove you actually listen to your significant other when he says he really likes that dress or that hairstyle.

It took a minute, but I finally have the “perfect date night look” ready to execute whenever Andrew and I make plans!

4  Quick Rules I Always Follow When Primping for Date Night:

1. Relaxed hair. Andrew loves when I curl my hair, he’s told me…but I have also paid attention to what he seems a little less fond of. Intricate up-do’s, stiff & hair-sprayed hair and tight pony tails usually don’t get much of a response out of him. Loose curls, messy pony tails and disheveled braids he can’t get enough off! 😉

2. Cute, flirty & comfortable. The fact of the matter is…your love most likely already thinks you’re adorable. There is no need to pull out ridiculous heels, tight skirts and uncomfortable dresses. As a matter of fact…nothing will put a damper on the night like wincing every time your shoes cut into your big toe (trust me, I’ve been there). So, your best bet is to wear something flattering, comfortable and a little bit flirty!

3. Just Say No To Lip Gloss. Listen, put the lipstick and the lip gloss away and save it for girls’ night out. When I’m heading out on a date night with Andrew I stick to chap-sticks, lip balm and usually just Vaseline! A guy wants to be able to lean in for an impromptu kiss without leaving with a sticky sweet mess of lip plumbing gloss all over his mouth.

4. Make An Entrance. Don’t let them watch you get ready!! Date night is sacred, you want to be able to “wow!” the love of your life. Even if you live together, kick their cute butt out of your bathroom and don’t let them see you again until you’re ready for the big reveal! It makes things so much more fun…and it helps keep those butterflies around as long as possible! 😉

Just in case you need a little outfit and makeup inspiration…this is my finished date night look! The best part about this post…Andrew did the photography. Which means lots of laughs and smiles!

The Absolutely Perfect Date Night Look

Spring Date Night

Summer Date Night

Summer Dress Date Night

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I’m not doing a really good job of keeping up with life lately. Which is strange, because….life has been much more manageable as of late.

I guess I’ve just been so busy enjoying it…that I haven’t had much time to write about it!

The good news is….I’ve got some FUN posts scheduled for next week and I’m getting back in the blogging game!

But for now…I want to share some of the things making my Friday extra fun!

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Photo booths. Seriously, I can’t walk past one without dragging whoever is with me in there to act like a goofball! This is Andrew and I’s latest of many.

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I think I finally perfected the “date night” look! And I can’t wait to share it on the blog next week!! Here is a sneak peek I shared on Instagram!

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These quotes that I will, eventually, be hanging all over my home office! 😉

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And finally….this song! “You’re crazy and I’m out of my mind” – Pretty much sums up Andrew and I’s relationship (hint…I’m crazy and he’s out of his mind)! 😉 <3

Oh, heyyy Happy Monday!

This week is beginning with a recent transition in my career path which is resulting in me working from home for most of each week. My life has been all about change as of late…lots of personal, physical & spiritual changes being made!

What is it about change (no matter how good it might be) that makes me so uneasy?? This new work environment is unfamiliar, and therefore, I have done an immense amount of research & reading so I can understand how to maintain productivity, acquire inspiration and hopefully find a bunch of success waiting for me at the end of this road.

My first order of business??

Updating my home office.

One of the things I loved about this house was the fact that it had a perfectly quaint office situated on the main floor. Obviously, I was certain I would transform the space into something Emily (Cupcakes and Cashmere) would approve of. Well…3 years later and it’s become more of a storage room with a desk stuffed in there somewhere.

Not exactly a success making sort of space if you know what I mean.

So, I spent the majority of my very lazy Sunday gathering photo inspiration from Pinterest (duh.) and I am looking forward to slowly transforming this office into a place I can’t wait to breeze into every morning!

Here is a look at some of my inspiration!

Office Layout

The Layout:

I don’t want to be facing a wall and I do not want my back to the door, so I’ve been searching for some unique desk placements!

The Details

The Details:

Its all in the details! Especially the little ones! I want little hints of who I am what I love to be scattered throughout the room in a unique way!

Prints

The Walls:

Clever & inexpensive prints will be necessary to keep my spirits up and make me smile!

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The Color Scheme:

I realize this is a table setting…but the blush, mint and gold stole my heart! This color palette will be my inspiration I paint and pick out pieces for my office.

Enjoy your week!!

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I just couldn’t let Friday pass without stopping by to say hi! And to share a few of my favorite internet finds from the week!

Behold….a bunch of guys attempt to do their girlfriends’ makeup.

I giggled. A lot. Reminds me of the many times I have asked Andrew to comb my hair (because who doesn’t love that??) and he holds the brush like a toddler trying to understand how to use a fork for the first time.

This Raspberry-Mango Sangria recipe…summer, please!!

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Kid President’s open letter to babies on their first day on Earth. Makes my soul smile!

Have a wonderful Friday and an incredible weekend!